My Checklist! taken from fellow knottie rdr716, made a few changes for my own needs :-) completed stuff is bolded blue text.
Important Stuff
Select wedding date - May 25th 2013
Finalize budget
Finalize guest list
Finalize wedding party
Finalize minimoon destination
Apply for marriage license
Vendors to Book
Ceremony/Reception Venue
Caterer
Beverage Provider- as required by Centennial Lakes Park
Photographer
DJ
Officiant
Hair Stylist
Hotel Room Block
Things/Appointments to Book
Rehearsal
Dress Fitting/Alterations
Hair Cut
Hair Trial
Wedding Night Accomodations
Honeymoon
Things to Order/Purchase/Find
Wedding Dress
Veil
Shoes
Jewelry
Corset/Slip
Undergarments
Dancing Shoes
Wedding Band for Groom
Wedding Band for Bride
Shower Outfit
Bachelorette Party Outfit
Rehearsal Dinner Outfit
Brunch Outfit
Terra Cotta Pots or IKEA Pails for birchwood flower centerpieces
Decide what my BMs will carry or wear
Flowers for Ceremony/Reception Decor
Guestbook Cards
Cardbox
Gift for Groom
Gifts for BP
Gift for MOH
Gift for BM
Gifts for Parents
DIY Projects
Place Card Board
Cardbox
Ceremony Programs
Memorial Candles
Table Numbers
Escort Cards
Attire
Buy dress and accessories
Have dress fitted/altered/bustled
Break in wedding day shoes
Beauty/Health
Decide on hairstyle
Decide on makeup look
Book hair/makeup trial
Book hair/makeup appointments
Have hair cut/colored
Have mani/pedi/eyebrow waxing
Venue
Sign venue contract and submit deposit
Complete venue payment- will be done night of May 25th 2013
Have menu tasting
Finalize dinner selections
Finalize vendor drop-off/arrival times with venue
Desserts!
Have tasting
Finalize dessert choices
Photography
Sign contract and submit deposit
Forward "photo inspiration" to photographer
Forward "must take" list to photographer
Make final payment
Music
Let FI's cousin/Best Man know of our selections
Pay him handsomely
Wedding Party
Have groomsmen/FFIL/FI fitted for suits
BMs finalizing their dress selections and accessories
Any necessary alterations for BM dresses
Guests
Finalize guest list
Set up database with guest list + addresses
Set up wedding website for OOT guests
Mail STDs (September 2012)
Mail wedding invitations (Jan-Feb 2013)
Finalize seating arrangements
Showers/Parties
Set up gift registries
Forward guest info to shower hostesses
Forward guest info to bachelorette hostesses
Purchase gifts for shower hostesses
Send thank you cards for shower
Miscellaneous
Wrap wedding party/parent gifts
Wrap groom's gift and arrange delivery
Last Minute Stuff
Pick up dress/veil from steaming
Pick up suits
Have rings cleaned
Confirm arrival/drop-off times with vendors/venue
Confirm event timeline with vendors/venue
Email event timeline to wedding party and immediate family
Forward setup information to helpers
Pack wedding night bag/drop off at hotel
Day Of
Pay remaining balances to vendors
Drop Lucy off at doggy daycare
Say I Do!
Afterwards
Return suits
File for name change (SS card, passport, drivers license, etc.)
Complete legal paperwork
Have wedding bands insured
Send wedding thank you cards
Have dress cleaned
Post DIY supplies for sale
Select wedding date - May 25th 2013
Finalize budget
Finalize guest list
Finalize wedding party
Finalize minimoon destination
Apply for marriage license
Vendors to Book
Ceremony/Reception Venue
Caterer
Beverage Provider- as required by Centennial Lakes Park
Photographer
DJ
Officiant
Hair Stylist
Hotel Room Block
Things/Appointments to Book
Rehearsal
Dress Fitting/Alterations
Hair Cut
Hair Trial
Wedding Night Accomodations
Honeymoon
Things to Order/Purchase/Find
Wedding Dress
Veil
Shoes
Jewelry
Corset/Slip
Undergarments
Dancing Shoes
Wedding Band for Groom
Wedding Band for Bride
Shower Outfit
Bachelorette Party Outfit
Rehearsal Dinner Outfit
Brunch Outfit
Terra Cotta Pots or IKEA Pails for birchwood flower centerpieces
Decide what my BMs will carry or wear
Flowers for Ceremony/Reception Decor
Guestbook Cards
Cardbox
Gift for Groom
Gifts for BP
Gift for MOH
Gift for BM
Gifts for Parents
DIY Projects
Place Card Board
Cardbox
Ceremony Programs
Memorial Candles
Table Numbers
Escort Cards
Attire
Buy dress and accessories
Have dress fitted/altered/bustled
Break in wedding day shoes
Beauty/Health
Decide on hairstyle
Decide on makeup look
Book hair/makeup trial
Book hair/makeup appointments
Have hair cut/colored
Have mani/pedi/eyebrow waxing
Venue
Sign venue contract and submit deposit
Complete venue payment- will be done night of May 25th 2013
Have menu tasting
Finalize dinner selections
Finalize vendor drop-off/arrival times with venue
Desserts!
Have tasting
Finalize dessert choices
Photography
Sign contract and submit deposit
Forward "photo inspiration" to photographer
Forward "must take" list to photographer
Make final payment
Music
Let FI's cousin/Best Man know of our selections
Pay him handsomely
Wedding Party
Have groomsmen/FFIL/FI fitted for suits
BMs finalizing their dress selections and accessories
Any necessary alterations for BM dresses
Guests
Finalize guest list
Set up database with guest list + addresses
Set up wedding website for OOT guests
Mail STDs (September 2012)
Mail wedding invitations (Jan-Feb 2013)
Finalize seating arrangements
Showers/Parties
Set up gift registries
Forward guest info to shower hostesses
Forward guest info to bachelorette hostesses
Purchase gifts for shower hostesses
Send thank you cards for shower
Miscellaneous
Wrap wedding party/parent gifts
Wrap groom's gift and arrange delivery
Last Minute Stuff
Pick up dress/veil from steaming
Pick up suits
Have rings cleaned
Confirm arrival/drop-off times with vendors/venue
Confirm event timeline with vendors/venue
Email event timeline to wedding party and immediate family
Forward setup information to helpers
Pack wedding night bag/drop off at hotel
Day Of
Pay remaining balances to vendors
Drop Lucy off at doggy daycare
Say I Do!
Afterwards
Return suits
File for name change (SS card, passport, drivers license, etc.)
Complete legal paperwork
Have wedding bands insured
Send wedding thank you cards
Have dress cleaned
Post DIY supplies for sale